There is sensitivity on all fronts these days, but regardless truth must be spoken. That spoken truth is what will bring clarity where there has been confusion, and peace where there has been hostility, but only if we allow it.
In our local bookstore yesterday, on the cover of a magazine I read some words in bold print that caught my eye. The question that was asked was, "What can we agree on?'" and then "How to listen with kindness," "How to argue without anger," and finally "And maybe even find common ground." I found it so interesting that I would see this given what was stirring within me all day.
We just returned from four days in a very popular southern destination. It is a stunning city, with interesting details in both architecture and history, but I felt it had an oppressive side as well. It left us feeling like there was more going on than what we saw.
What we saw was why many flock to this historic city. The row houses, the tight cobblestone streets, the colors and textures, but when we looked beyond the facade we saw what many may miss. Sadness and tension in the faces of the people on the street and in the restaurants.
When we travel it is the locals that we are keen to meet, and if possible to see and experience their home through these encounters. We experienced a city in an identity crisis. One that is made up of amazing people of diverse cultures who call this city home, who have lost touch with each other, and are trying to figure it out.
As a visitor it is interesting to look at a city from the perspective of the unattached outsider. However, sometimes you see things that those living there probably assume you miss, and then you leave with your photos returning to your own life, but you are left with a sense of compassion for those left behind.
Mark 12:31 NLT The second is equally important: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' No other commandment is greater than these."